Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Reginald Carlyon Coates with the following comment:
Major Reginald Carlyon Coates was my Grandfather's Commanding Officer on 26th., September 1914, when Grandfather was killed in action. We have the letter he wrote to my Grandmother, full of praise and respect for the man who had been his Battery Serjeant Major. My Mother, only one year old when her Father was killed, married E G Coates who, as far as I can establish, is not related to Reginald Carlyon Coates.